In Memory of My Wife, Elise Cawley, with Thanks for 36 Wonderful Years

(writings.stephenwolfram.com)

308 points | by jdcampolargo 2 hours ago

14 comments

  • cube00 1 hour ago
    An amazingly detailed tribute, you'd have to think this was taken from a journal, in which case it's impressive to keep such a record of their life, or maybe Stephen just has a fantastic memory.

    Even through that detail you can really feel how much he loved and admired her.

    > Somehow in the shock of what has happened it feels as if I just met Elise, and now she is gone.

    Time's cruelty is making the wonderful things never last long enough and the painful things last too long.

    > My only solace in this tragedy is that the end came instantly, after a day filled with nothing but joy.

    Hopefully we're all lucky enough to be released without suffering and surrounded by our loved ones.

    • iammjm 45 minutes ago
      Stephen has been documenting his life for decades now. He talks about his system here: https://writings.stephenwolfram.com/2019/02/seeking-the-prod...
      • detourdog 37 minutes ago
        A read a story of a guy who bumped into him at conference and had some sort of conversation. The following week he received a follow from Wolfram's office with his assigned conversation number. The number was to be used for all follow-ups.
        • MengerSponge 28 minutes ago
          I remember reading about a personal CRM project called Monica years ago. Does anyone here still use it? Is there an actively maintained alternative?
  • steve_adams_86 1 hour ago
    It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all, but, god damn does it still hurt to move through that loss. I'm glad it was fast and painless for her and her family.
  • andromaton 3 minutes ago
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  • BewareTheYiga 1 hour ago
    What a beautiful tribute.
  • adamredwoods 1 hour ago
    It's a profound thing to lose someone that intertwined in your life. I should know.
  • binyu 1 hour ago
    I am so sorry for your loss. This is a beautiful and touching tribute and she was lucky to have such a loving husband.
  • Sprotch 48 minutes ago
    You can feel his love for her. Heartbreaking.
  • jasoneckert 1 hour ago
    This is a lovely and heartfelt tribute. Thanks for sharing this.
  • frou_dh 50 minutes ago
    That's neat that she designed their house. When I've seen videos of Wolfram in his house I've always thought it looked an awesome high-class place.
  • arjie 56 minutes ago
    Beautiful tribute. Perhaps a reminder to self to write my own version prior to our passing. Such misfortune to be taken so young.
  • copperx 1 hour ago
    Wonderful tribute.
  • redsocksfan45 1 hour ago
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  • altairprime 1 hour ago
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